Long
ago, in a distant land, there lived two sculptors named Seb and
Matthias. One day they each received a Royal proclamation inviting them
to take part in a sculpting competition
to be held at the Royal Gardens.
Both Seb and Matthias were extremely excited by this opportunity and immediately started preparing for the seven day journey.
Seb
set out on a bright Monday morning with his chisels and hammers packed
in the back of his horse-drawn cart. At the end of his first day of
traveling, he made camp in a clearing by the side
of the road. After a simple meal, Seb noticed a large rock on the edge
of the clearing and decided to get in some practice for the upcoming
sculpting competition.
He
took out his tools and began to chisel away at the rock. Several hours
later, Seb stood back to look at his sculpture. It was a statue of the
Princess Rebecca, but while he was reasonably happy
with his attempt, Seb realized that the statue’s hands were too big. He
made a mental note to be careful of this in the future and went to
sleep.
The
next morning, Seb continued on his way leaving his statue of Princess
Rebecca by the side of the clearing. At the end of his second day, Seb
found another rock to practice on and created another
sculpture of the Princess. This time he got her hands right but made
her legs too short. He made a mental note on how to improve next time
and moved on.
Seb
continued this pattern throughout his journey. Each night he found a
rock to practice on, created a sculpture of Princess Rebecca, made note
on how he could improve and then moved on the following
morning leaving the sculpture where he created it.
By
the time Seb reached the Royal Gardens he had made seven practice
sculptures that were each a little bit better than the one before. On
the day of the competition, Seb created his best sculpture
ever and to his delight, he was awarded the coveted ‘Golden Hammer’
award which was presented by Princess Rebecca herself.
Now you may be wondering what happened to the other sculptor, Matthias, so let me tell you his side of the story…
Matthias
also set out on the seven day journey to the Royal Gardens to compete
in the sculpting competition. Like Seb, Matthias made camp on the first
night and found a large rock to practice on.
He too created a statue of the Princess Rebecca but found that he made
her feet too big. Matthias was angry at himself for making this mistake
and the next morning he heaved the statue onto the back of his cart so
that he could study his mistake later.
At
the end of his second day of traveling, Matthias found another rock to
practice on and created another statue. This time he forgot to include
the princesses head dress and he became furious
at his mistake. The next morning, he heaved the statue onto the back of
his cart and continued slowly on his journey.
Each
night Matthias repeated this same pattern. He created a statue, became
angry with himself when he made a mistake and then loaded the statue
onto his cart before moving on.
On
the seventh day, Matthias woke up early and prepared for the final leg
of his journey, but when he prompted his horse to get underway, the poor
animal strained at his harness but could not move
an inch. Matthias jumped down from his seat and went to the back of his
cart.
There
he found all seven practice statues of the Princess Rebecca which were
weighing the cart down and making it impossible to move. Matthias
complained bitterly as he looked over the statues
in detail – too big, too short, too tall…the list of mistakes went on
and on. The unhappy sculptor sat down on a tree stump and continued to
stare at his statues for hours, and as a result, he never made it to the
Royal Gardens to compete in the competition.
This
simple story illustrates an important lesson that can often be the
difference between success and failure. The statues in the story
represent the mistakes that we all make in life. The difference
between Seb and Matthias was the way in which they responded to their
mistakes.
When Seb made a practice statue he made a mental note of any problems and then
he left his mistake where he made it and continued on his journey. As a result, he gradually developed his skills and eventually achieved his ultimate objective.
Matthias
on the other hand approached his mistakes in a different fashion. Each
time he made a statue, he loaded it onto his cart and took it with him.
Each day his cart became heavier and heavier
until eventually it would not move at all. Instead of leaving his
mistakes where he made them, Matthias carried the weight of his mistakes
with him and the weight of these past mistakes eventually prevented him
from reaching his real objective.
Moral:
On your journey to success, understand that we too will make mistakes.
Some small, some big. Each time you make
a mistake you have a choice. We can either learn from your mistake or
move on or you can carry our mistake with us. The danger in harboring
regret and continually analyzing your past mistakes is that, we can
eventually get stuck and can jeopardize the achievements
that are waiting for you in your future.
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